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FROM THE TRENCHES
BY: Dave Cummings—Porn Star/Producer/Director
Feb, 2010
In this monthly column, I need to write something about which I have no expertise whatsoever, just opinions. It’s a subject that affects lots of folks of all ages in many parts of the world, be they from Europe, Australia, New York, Texas, California, or elsewhere. This issue is something that men and women who don’t presently have a spouse or significant other should probably become informed about, and those couples already in a marital or a significant relationship might want to think about and discuss with each other as they read my novice thoughts, experiences, opinions, and recommendations.
Are you ready? Here’s my subject – why do couples cheat, or think/fantasize about cheating on each other, especially sexually? Now, of course, some folks get involved with others based upon workplace temptations, physical looks and/or personality, celebrity, their need for someone to fill a perceived void in their lives (like wanting someone to lovingly “listen to them”?), their need for financial security, their need to still feel “wanted” like they were when they were younger, and on and on and on!
In a nut shell, maybe people cheat on each other because they are allergic to wedding cake; or, the two-way courting phase has been replaced by the need for one or both ofhem to spend some of that time on their career or raising a family, or by the lack of time in today’s hurry-up and hectic world; or, one of the hundreds of other reasons, many of which involve sex.
What happened to the romance? Why can’t they just have some relaxing and closeness time together? How come they can’t find the privacy or opportunity now that they are parents? What’s the real impact of a passing or permanent illness or injury upon their love life? Why did they always want to have sex pre-marriage, but now can’t seem to find/make time for it, or each other’s needs? What’s the deal with their lovemaking sex during their courting days now morphing into a physical or robotic quickie sex act, instead of a caring and loving communication and togetherness? The questions are endless, and each spouse and marriage/relationship might have different questions and perceptions of what’s happened, and why, and what can be done about it. Is the grass really greener on the other side (cheating), or will many of the other seemingly heavenly and close couples also inevitably end up just like some of the others down the road?
In my opinion, marital improvements like enhanced communications and a return to “making time” for each other and their marriage can take many directions towards a happier life, but sometimes it just doesn’t work out and “cheating” happens. In future columns, I might opine about discussion groups, swinging, religion, and other aspects that might be factors towards addressing some of the issues, but right now, let me address the physical aspect of having sex as I see it from a novice viewpoint.
OK, without further delay, let me say that I see a physical reason as just one of many for decreased sex in a marriage or long term relationship. Let’s face it, as we age some physical and attitudinal change happens, be it wrinkles, weight gain, hygiene, becoming a nag, etc. Sometimes men get a big belly, lose their hair, or shortcut their appearance. Some wives get stretch marks from child birth, or sometimes don’t put pre-wedding cake effort into their appearance or communicating their desires for sex with their husband. And, sometimes, one or both just don’t want to “bother”. Through communicating, some of this can improve.
Dieting for one or both might be self-prescribed, and can be turned into a fun team effort. Getting to a gym (for exercise, not to check out the opposite sex there) to lose weight and tone-up would make one more desirable, and probably healthier. Maybe some treadmill time, or outdoor jogging or walking will help. Perhaps, setting up some weights and exercise equipment in the home would be more convenient, and it could save on babysitter fees. Whatever needs to be done might benefit the marriage more if it was done together —thus, hitting the gym-in-the-home after the kids are asleep might end up with the couple showering together afterwards, and washing each other’s back (or genitals?) which just might lead into sex when they later crawl into bed TOGETHER!
Wives on their monthly period might be lovingly excited by a sexy massage; at other times, some sensuous touching/holding/caressing or oral/69 play might lead to loving sex; there could be lots of fun, and “action” if a couple together find ways to make sex exciting and loving again. Be caring, even if it’s in a passing flirty glance or light touch as you’re walking by each other in the kitchen. Ever come home together from someplace and after shutting the garage door you lean over and kiss, hug, or neck in the front seat? Try it!
I can’t end this “cheating-prevention” opinion piece without first being candid about personal hygiene. Guys planning on trying to seduce their woman into sex/lovemaking need to use mouthwash, shave closely (even against the grain, just in case you get to perform cunnilingus on/for your woman), and shower super-thoroughly with emphasis on the crotch area, insure your fingernails and toenails are trimmed, and if you like her to have a shaved vaginal area then you should yourself be neatly trimmed or shaved. Some guys apparently need to realize that it’s not just the female who has to be clean and “ready”, but also themselves. Have sex, maybe even make love; then cuddle up together before you ease into your individual sleeping process. Bottom line, LOVE each other and make an effort to show it. Quickies are ok, but adding the element of lovemaking could be fabulous!
Like I said, opinion is all I have to offer. I hope something herein was useful, or at least sparked your curiosity to try it. Feel free to email me your comments to dave@davecummings.com .
Be caring, supportive, and loving towards your mate!
Dave Cummings, www.davecummings.com / www.davecummings.tv
Interview By Cindi Loftus
writercindi@aol.com
Photos Courtesy of Nina Mercedez
©2010 Xcitement Magazine
Hi Beautiful! People are asking where you have been. We have missed you around here! I know you and I talk all the time on Twitter. But you disappeared from the public eye for a while.
I missed all my Xcitement fans down in Florida that’s for sure. Seems like forever since I’ve been here. But yes I did take some much needed time off from dancing and performing in front of the camera. After LFP decided not to distribute movies anymore I decided to take my product to the next step and go to the web, Me and Ray now run over 5 sites. We run my website www.ninamercedez.com, my company website www.heartbreakerfilms.com, where you can find all my content from all my movie releases from Heartbreaker Films including Thrust, Mercedez Takes Control and Latina Anal Heartbreakers. We also run the beautiful Sophia Santi’s website www.sophiasanti.com and Gianna Lynn’s website www.GiannaLynn.com. On top of those we also have a teen site and like 30 blogs so I have actually been very busy! We do everything for the sites from start to finish; all the editing, traffic, SEO and affiliate so it’s a lot of work. Were also talking to Janine about picking up her site but were not 100% there yet on that deal.
I am back now dancing on the road I just finished a booking in PA and now this one in Florida and in a few months I will be in Texas! I really missed dancing but I think a break from it is good. You come back excited and refreshed. I am also getting ready to go to LA and shoot some scenes for a few movies but all my Boy-Girl content will be strictly for my website. I want my fans to know they can get all my stuff from one source and not have to go out and look for this dvd or go to that site they can get it all on my site 100% exclusively!
I’ve heard you moved from LA to a colder climate. How do you like living in PA?
Yes I moved in June so at first I didn’t mind it. We live on a big property, very private and hidden away, so I liked it. I am surrounded by these beautiful trees and so much green, unlike California. But now that it is winter I am not liking it so much. I am a scorpio and I love the heat and when it is cold here, it’s cold! I have actually gone like 3 days in my house without leaving because I can’t take the cold and snow! Funny I was walking into the mall the other day and it was so cold and I had to park so far away that when I got about 10 feet from the door I swear there were tears rolling out of my eyes. I wanted to throw my gloves down and scream forget it forget it…it’s too cold! (Laughs) But I am adjusting fine. I don’t plan on living here forever that’s for sure!
How was your Christmas?
Christmas was good. I got a ton of cool stuff like boxes from my favorite bath and body shop Lush, I got a treadmill because it’s too cold to get into my car and go to the gym, and I got a flip I had been asking for for a while to catch all my on the road antics so I can post them on youtube and my website. Christmas dinner was an adventure. This is the first year I had Lasagna for dinner. Usually we have turkey or tamales, but Ray’s family is Italian so they do things differently, it was an experience though.
Do you have any New Year’s Resolutions?
I usually don’t make New Year’s resolutions because after 2 weeks I am like what did I say I was gonna do now? My motto is make monthly goals and execute them..Actually I stole that from another girl and now it’s mine!
What kind of sexy things have you been up too?
Well I am now dedicated to doing these cam shows. I am addicted to them. I love the voyeuristic part of it. We sometimes do live sex shows or sometimes I do solo shows. I go on www.imlive.com and www.streamate.com this social networking is awesome! So I do that and the sites and I just signed a big deal with the people from Loveable Dolls to scan me. The guy that owns the business used to be the sculptor behind Real Doll so they are new but old and just as good! I am very excited about being made into a doll. It is weird because I want everyone to be nice to her I feel like she is me is that weird Cindi?
No baby. If I had a Mercedez doll I would be REALLY nice to her! Are you shooting scenes these days?
I have a lot of scenes in the making for my website. I plan on shooting with Sandee Westgate again, Mariah Milano, Sophie Dee, Priya Rai, Shyla Styles, Vanessa Blue and Naomi Banxxx and of course all my hot boy girl scenes. I am taking fan requests.
I have some requests, but I’ll tell you about them later. (Laughs) What new feature shows do you plan on doing when you visit us?
Well the club asked me to bring all my big shows so I am doing my Award winning Indian show with fire and I may bring my big Champagne bowl so I can do my tub show and get all wet. I also have my snow show and my Vampire and Jungle all big Jacquie costumes. And my shows are all customer participation! There is a reason I am Miss Nude Universe!
It will be a blast to have you performing again. Do you have a funny story about something that happened to you while featuring?
I was featuring at my home club and I was doing my fire show and people were tipping like 10, 20, dollars. The stage was covered with money. It was my first time doing my shows there so it was going good. The time came to do my fire so I brought out my bucket, lit my baton and the stage was surrounded by people. Some how my bucket of fire tipped over and all my money on the stage caught fire. I didn’t know what to do so we started to throw wet rags on it, but it all burnt up! I was really embarrassed but thinking back it was pretty funny!
So you were really “on fire” that night. Lame joke, I know. You shouldn’t be embarrassed. I am sure lots of worse things than that have happened to features.
Yes they have. I called my girl friend because I was having a bad night and we started talking about funny stuff on stage and she said you will never believe what happen to me the other night she said I came out and on the last song the DJ announced everyone around the stage stand up so she starts yelling at the stage guys stand up and this one guy isn’t standing up so she goes over to him in front of everyone yelling come on stand up, WTF stand the fuck up but he wont do it so she bends down to grab him by the shirt and pull him up and as she is grabbing his shirt he yells I can’t stand up I am in a wheel chair … OMG she said she was dying of embarrassment. She looked down and he was sitting in a wheel chair! I always get a laugh out of that! I would have died! I once leaned over on this guy in a wheelchair and we both fell back and hit the ground it was pretty humiliating but he thought it was funny!
Tell me your favorite things about your fans?
I love how interactive my fans are! I love how they have supported me through the years I mean I haven’t shot a movie in like 2 years and I am in the top 15 on the www.MissFreeones.com contest. Thats pretty amazing! It is all fan voting and I am so high up on the top over girls who shoot every week. Those are some dedicated people I love them! Please keep voting!
I voted for you on there too, by the way. Tell everyone about your website.
My site is www.Ninamercedez.com. I know you’ll love it. I have a ton of hardcore content as well as girl on girl and solo stuff. My girlfriends’ section is packed. I have had the site up for over 6 years and it is updated every other day so that’s a lot of content! I also have a diary section as well as cam shows and free feeds full of 100’s of movies!
Well you know I love you girlfriend, and we are very glad that you are coming back down to South Florida to see us. So give me the details.
I am appearing February 4th, 5th and 6th at Beach House Cabaret. Three shows per night- 10pm, 12 & 2am www.beachhousecabaret.com
Ruby was an adult star who took off to have a family and “normal” life. But she still loves her sex, and as much of it as possible. The story I did on her a while ago with the pics of her very pregnant went over very well. So I am just doing a repost here to direct you to them in case you missed out. She should be popping out a baby anyday now. Best of luck my beautiful Momma! xoxo
You can see more naked pregnant pics here- ( oh and she does chat too, so follow the link)
Photography by Josh
I was lucky enough to do an interview with the temptatious Teagan the other day. She has so much going on I don’t know how she keeps up with it all. She did the whole Vegas convention & Awards thing, bringing home three trophies, she is know feature dancing with her two buddies Sunny Leone & Eva Angelina.
As if Teagan wasn’t hot enough up on stage strutting and dancing around naked, she is now up there with her two friends. All three girls on stage at once doing a sexy and interactive show. Check around to see when they will be appearing in your area. You can find their schedule on DevianceXXX.com
Teagan will be the Feb 1st cover of Xcitement, so I am lucky off to have a few pictures I can share with you ahead of time. OH and Teagan also just signed on as a contract girl for Adam & Eve! Her site TeaganPresley.com will be up soon.
Teagan is also making appearances on IMlive.com so if you ever wanted to have a chat either with a group, or all to yourself log on and check it out.
It is free to sign up. I have tested it out for myself and they didn’t charge me anything to go in and just look around and talk to various sexy girls, guys & couples in the main rooms. I might even be able to get you some free minutes. I’ll see what I can swing. Click here to log in and if you talk to the beautiful Teagan tell her Cindi said hi!

Lupe Fuentes Feature Dancing Debut at Spearmint Rhino in Rialto, CA

Breakout Porn Star sensation, Lupe Fuentes will make her world premier feature dancing debut at Spearmint Rhino Rialto club, introducing her new Lupe Fuentes ‘Fleshlight’.
Woodland Hills, California – Teravision contract superstar, Lupe Fuentes takes to the stage for her world premier feature-dancing debut, at the Spearmint Rhino gentlemen’s club in Rialto, California, Thursday, December 17 through December, 19, 2009.
Coming off of a great year with AVN Award nominations for ‘Best Interactive Release’ with Teravision’s ‘Girlfriend SEXperience’ and ‘Best New Web Starlet’, Fuentes marks two career changing events with this set of performances, as the star will also stage the official release party of her new ‘Lupe Fuentes Fleshlight ®’ during her performances at the renowned venue.

Steve Shubin, CEO of Fleshlight® manufacturer, ILF, LLC said, “We were immediately struck by Lupe’s natural ability to combine enormous spirit and beauty into such a small package. The Lupe Fuentes Fleshlight squeezes key elements from Fleshlights popular Mini Lotus texture into a more intensely concentrated inner canal, and introduces a new, more realistic flesh tone color perfected by ILF LLC. The soft, pliable Super Skin® masturbation sleeve is made from a patented, high-quality material designed to replicate the sensation of penetrative sex.â€
Fuentes will have premier editions of her Fleshlight®, along with copies of her Teravision video debut, ‘Lupe Fuentes’ Girlfriend Sexperience’ available for purchase during her signings at all of her stops along her maiden feature dancing tour.
Spearmint Rhino’s Rialto location is 312 S. Riverside Avenue, in Rialto, CA. For show times and more information on Fuente’s debut performances at Spearmint Rhino in Rialto, please call (909)873-2257.

Fuente’s YouTube interview about her new Fleshlight: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCU-cevr3WY
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About Lupe Fuentes:
Lupe Fuentes became a breakout Teravision contract star, not long after moving from Madrid, Spain in pursuit of adult stardom in the United States. At just 4 feet, 11 inches tall, the petite beauty has already built a sizeable fan base and is beginning a feature dancing tour of the United States and abroad as she enters 2010. Fuentes received ten 2009 AVN Award nominations for her work with Teravision and Iron Cross. Among the nominations she earned, are “Best Interactive DVD†for ‘Lupe Fuentes Interactive Girlfriend SEXperience’ and “Best New Web Starletâ€. Fuentes has been immortalized by adult novelty toy manufacturer, ILF, LLC with the introduction of the ‘Lupe Fuentes Fleshlight ®’, which released to the retail market in December of 2009.
For Immediate Release: Friday, December 18, 2009
Contact: Evan Seinfeld at evan@teravision.com
Lupe Fuentes Feature Dancing Debut at Spearmint Rhino in Rialto, CA
Breakout Porn Star sensation, Lupe Fuentes will make her world premier feature dancing debut at Spearmint Rhino Rialto club, introducing her new Lupe Fuentes ‘Fleshlight’.
Woodland Hills, California – Teravision contract superstar, Lupe Fuentes takes to the stage for her world premier feature-dancing debut, at the Spearmint Rhino gentlemen’s club in Rialto, California, Thursday, December 17 through December, 19, 2009.
Coming off of a great year with AVN Award nominations for ‘Best Interactive Release’ with Teravision’s ‘Girlfriend SEXperience’ and ‘Best New Web Starlet’, Fuentes marks two career changing events with this set of performances, as the star will also stage the official release party of her new ‘Lupe Fuentes Fleshlight ®’ during her performances at the renowned venue.
Steve Shubin, CEO of Fleshlight® manufacturer, ILF, LLC said, “We were immediately struck by Lupe’s natural ability to combine enormous spirit and beauty into such a small package. The Lupe Fuentes Fleshlight squeezes key elements from Fleshlights popular Mini Lotus texture into a more intensely concentrated inner canal, and introduces a new, more realistic flesh tone color perfected by ILF LLC. The soft, pliable Super Skin® masturbation sleeve is made from a patented, high-quality material designed to replicate the sensation of penetrative sex.â€
Fuentes will have premier editions of her Fleshlight®, along with copies of her Teravision video debut, ‘Lupe Fuentes’ Girlfriend Sexperience’ available for purchase during her signings at all of her stops along her maiden feature dancing tour.
Spearmint Rhino’s Rialto location is 312 S. Riverside Avenue, in Rialto, CA. For show times and more information on Fuente’s debut performances at Spearmint Rhino in Rialto, please call (909)873-2257.
Fuente’s YouTube interview about her new Fleshlight: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCU-cevr3WY
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About Lupe Fuentes:
Lupe Fuentes became a breakout Teravision contract star, not long after moving from Madrid, Spain in pursuit of adult stardom in the United States. At just 4 feet, 11 inches tall, the petite beauty has already built a sizeable fan base and is beginning a feature dancing tour of the United States and abroad as she enters 2010. Fuentes received ten 2009 AVN Award nominations for her work with Teravision and Iron Cross. Among the nominations she earned, are “Best Interactive DVD†for ‘Lupe Fuentes Interactive Girlfriend SEXperience’ and “Best New Web Starletâ€. Fuentes has been immortalized by adult novelty toy manufacturer, ILF, LLC with the introduction of the ‘Lupe Fuentes Fleshlight ®’, which released to the retail market in December of 2009.